You have been together for 3 years now and it is beginning to feel like a whole lot more. You know your partner’s favorite place to eat, which side of the bed she likes to sleep on, what her favorite color is and all about her family. You also know that she forgets to clean the hair out of the drain after she showers, she likes things messy and you like things in order, and if she leaves the cap off the toothpaste one more time you may scream.
This is a huge red flag that it is time to spice things up a bit. We all fall into the trap and let ourselves fall into a routine. And while having a routine is nice, pulling yourself and your partner out of it once in a while is necessary if you want to make it to your 10 year anniversary.
So how does one “spice things up”? Well, it is really much easier than you think. It is really all about the little things. When was the last time you sent your love some flowers? When was the last time you got something fun for the bedroom? If it has been a while try and experiment with something new. There is a great selection of toys you can buy to spice up your bedroom. Have you tried to meet up for lunch lately?
Anytime you are taking the time to think about your partner and then translating that into an action you are spicing thing up!