As we grow up we all question who we are and what we were put on this earth to do. It isn’t always a conscious thought, but at some point along the line the realization of who we are, straight or gay, comes to us. Whether you accept who you are is a whole different topic for another day.
However, for some people that realization isn’t enough. They need more to see which path is for them. Should you be one of those people here are some other signs that you are indeed a lesbian.
The first is to pay attention who you are drawn to. Now just because you like to talk to other girls does not mean you are a lesbian. Drawn to means on a deeper level. You want to get to know her, spend time with her, and your heart aches a bit when you aren’t with her.
Another sign is the type of porn that arouses you and the type of toys you want to play with, visit an online adult store and look through the toys. What are you drawn to? What turns you on?
The biggest indicator is always going to be your “gut”! You have to trust it. Trust how spending time with girls versus guys makes you feel. Do you have the urge to touch and kiss a girl, any girl, then you may just need to find out for yourself if being with a girl is for you.